Foremost, a Tantric Yoni Massage is therapeutic work aimed at healing emotional issues and emotionally related physical issues. Nevertheless, although not intended as a so-called “Happy Ending Massage,” pleasure, fun, and even orgasms naturally make part of a session and the healing process.
As already explained in our post Yoni Massage | Preparing for a Session, the practitioner will always start with a thorough introduction and inquiry. The therapist may also ask you to take a shower beforehand.
During the actual massage session, the Yoni Massage practitioner is fully clothed. There are sessions where this is not the case, but this is then something you may want yourself or, in any case, need to know about beforehand. Also, you will not be asked to touch the therapist’s body parts, such as the buttocks, breasts, or genitals. Do remember that a Yoni Massage is a one-way touch practice, which means that you are the receiver and the therapist the giver.
The massage therapist will only touch you with the hands, not with the mouth or any other body part. Depending on the way a therapist works, he or she may use certain sex toys or essentials as an aid, such as, for instance, the Yoni Wand and massage oils or other lubricants.
During a session, you can always stop and /or leave at any time for whatever reason you feel or think. A professional therapist will completely understand this.
Usually, other people (a friend or someone you trust) should/will not be present during the actual session (in the treatment room), unless you would personally want that to feel safer (and if the therapist consents to such an approach).
Within a Yoni Massage session a variety of massage techniques may be applied, including touching, stroking, acupressure, tapping, circling, pushing, pulling, tugging, rolling, deep breathing, and, if consent is given, internal finger penetration. Mind that a session usually includes the use of oils and/or lubricants.
Additionally, certain activities or practices may come into play, such as Yoni Mapping, Yoni Wand application, Tantric Breathwork, Orgasm Control and Edging, Yoni Dearmoring, Anal Massage, and the Sacred Spot Massage.
Mind that each practitioner carries out a Yoni Massage differently, all depending on his or her style and the therapeutic goal of the session. Yet typically, a treatment will start with a gentle and caressing full body Tantric Oil Massage, while gradually increasing focus on your erogenous zones.
Heading on to the vulva, clitoris, vagina and further internally to the G-Spot and cervix and/or to the rectum will be done only when you have given consent and moreover, when you are completely relaxed and prepared after a general full body massage.
Some Yoni Massage therapists explicitly begin a session with practicing Tantric Breathing techniques with you. This is done to relax you, connect deeper with your body, and to give you more energy. It’s also a tool that teaches you to use breathing to heighten your experience during the massage.
Very much depending on the therapist, certain Tantric welcoming, awakening, and/or honoring rituals may be performed. These can be done standing or sitting (on the floor) and can, for instance, include chanting, mantras, hugging and/or lightly caressing your body.
A special ambiance may be created, which, again depending on the therapist, may include darkening the room, burning incense, candlelight, blindfolding, initial touch, and background music.
After the preliminaries you will be invited to lie down nude on a massage table, face down, sometimes starting with a towel on your buttocks. This is when the actual Yoni Massage session starts.
Subsequently, your back, neck, shoulders and arms will be massaged with (warm) oil. Gradually the massage will extend to the lower parts of your body, that is, to the buttocks, thighs, the lower legs and feet.
After being asked to turn around, the therapist will start with the front side of your body. The head, face, neck, arms, belly and hips will be massaged, followed by the erogenous zones, such as the breasts, nipples, inner thighs, while finally heading to the vulva and vagina. With consent, internal work will be carried out.
Many different kinds of sensations may be experienced during the session, which can include pleasurable feelings, emotional release, crying, shaking, full body orgasms (without physical ejaculation), physical orgasms, and energy whirls throughout the complete body, just to give some examples.
After the session, you will have time to relax while lying on the massage table. Usually, the practitioner will use hot towels to take off the oils. You can also take a shower if a bathing facility is available.