Emotional and sexual dearmoring (de-armoring or dearmouring) is the Neo-Tantric idea of removing our emotional armor or shield, that is, the emotional and physical protection in our bodies, which hinders us to function wholly, spontaneously and healthy on a sexual, emotional, physical and spiritual level, ultimately being obstructed to fully express our manhood or womanhood.
Thus, having built an armor, de-armoring is basically about releasing physical, mental and psychological sexual blockages and with that also actual physical pain and numbness in and around the anus, vagina, uterus, penis, testicles, clitoris, groin, prostate, abdominal and pelvic region, to name the most common areas or organs.
Dearmoring is about clearing blockages built over years because of trauma, emotional pressure, and stress that emerged from one’s upbringing, one’s specific cultural society and mold, one’s working environment or from deeply damaging experiences such as sexual harassment and sexual abuse, gender issues, or prejudice, and such.
As the mind reflects itself in the body and vice versa, it’s thought that by coping with (and subsequently releasing) disturbing emotions or trauma through psycho-physical work, one will be able to experience increased pleasure, more and better orgasms or be able to control orgasms better, have a better sex-life, feel more free, to finally becoming a more whole, complete and balanced person.
Thus, by manually stimulating areas of tightness, tension, contraction and pain with massage and acupressure, men and women can release mental, emotional, and physical blockages. Of course, there’s also a whole lot of psychological work to be done, but by accepting that one can come to emotional and trauma release through physical treatments, being “open” for it, half of the work has already been done, so to say.
Typical bodywork modalities that support this kind of de-armoring work are Karsai Nei Tsang, Chi Nei Tsang, Sexological Bodywork, Tantra, Yoni and Lingam Massage, Yoni Mapping, Yoni Wand application, Urut Batin, Juagen, and Jabkasai, to name some of the important massage and bodywork modalities that can come to help.