With regard to our sexuality, the Neo-Tantric idea of de-armoring (or dearmoring) is that we may have built an armor or a shield, that is, emotional and physical protections in our bodies, blocking us to function “normally,” wholly, spontaneously and healthy on a sexual level — both in the emotional and physical realm — and ultimately being hindered to fully express our manhood, or in case of women, our womanhood.
The work of de-armoring is about releasing physical, mental and psychological sexual blockages and trauma, and with that also actual physical pain, discomforts and numbness in and around the anus, vagina, ovaries, penis, testicles, groin, abdominal and pelvic area.
It’s about clearing blockages built over years through trauma, emotional pressure and stress that emerged from one’s upbringing, one’s specific cultural society and mold, one’s working environment or from deeply damaging experiences such as sexual harassment and sexual abuse, gender issues, or prejudice, and so on.
As the mind reflects itself in the body and vice versa, it’s thought that that by releasing and coping with disturbing emotions or trauma through psycho-physical work, one will be able to experience increased pleasure, more and better orgasms or being able to control orgasms better, have a better sex-life and better sexual “performance,” feel more free, to finally becoming a more whole, complete and balanced person.
So, by manually stimulating areas of tightness, tension, contraction and pain with massage and acupressure, one can release mental, emotional, and physical blockages. Of course, there’s also a whole lot of psychological work and counselling to be done, but by accepting that one can come to emotional and trauma release through physical treatments, being “open” for it, half of the work is already done, so to say.
Typical modalities that support this kind of de-armoring work are Karsai Nei Tsang, Chi Nei Tsang, Sexological Bodywork, Tantra, Yoni and Lingam Massage, Yoni Mapping, Yoni Wand application, Urut Batin, Juagen, and Jabkasai, to name some of the important massage and bodywork modalities for de-armoring work.
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