A Tantric Lingam Massage is foremost therapeutic work, aimed at healing (sexual) emotional issues, spiritual issues, and emotionally related physical ailments. A Lingam Massage is not intended as a “Happy Ending Massage,” but pleasure, fun and even orgasms naturally make part of a session and the healing process.
First of all, a Tantra Massage practitioner will always start with a thorough introduction and inquiry, trying to find out what you want, need, and/or can handle. The therapist may also ask you to take a shower beforehand.
During the massage session, the therapist stays fully clothed. There may be sessions where this is not the case, but this is something that must be talked about beforehand and done only in mutual consent. Also, you will not be asked to touch the therapist’s body parts, such as the buttocks or genitals. A Lingam Massage is a one-way touch massage, which means that you are the receiver and the therapist the giver.
The massage therapist will only touch you with the hands, not with the mouth or any other body part. Depending on the way a practitioner works, he or she may use certain sex toys or essentials as an aid, such as, for instance, a prostate massager, herbal compresses, massage oils or other lubricants.
You can always stop and /or leave at any time with the session for whatever reason. A professional Tantra therapist should completely understand this and will have mentioned this beforehand.
Usually, a friend or someone you trust will not be present during the actual session (in the treatment room), unless you would personally want that to feel safer, and if the therapist consents to such an approach.
Within a Lingam Massage a variety of massage techniques may be applied, including touching, stroking, acupressure, tapping, circling, pushing, pulling, tugging, rolling, deep breathing, and, if consent is given, internal finger penetration to massage the anus, rectum, and prostate. Mind that a session usually includes the use of oils and/or lubricants.
Additionally, certain activities or practices may come into play, such as Lingam Mapping, Tantric Breathwork, Orgasm Control and Edging, Sexual Dearmoring, Anal Massage, and the Prostate G-Spot Massage.
Mind that each practitioner carries out a Lingam Massage differently, depending on his or her style and the therapeutic goal of the session. Yet typically, a treatment will start with a gentle and caressing full body Tantric Oil Massage, while gradually increasing focus on your erogenous zones.
Heading on to the penis, testicles, and further internally via the rectum to the prostate will be done only when you have given consent and moreover, when you are completely relaxed and prepared after a general full body Tantric Massage.
Some Lingam Massage therapists explicitly begin a session with practicing Tantric Breathing techniques with you. This is done to relax you, connect deeper with your body, and to give you more energy. It’s also a tool that teaches you to use breathing to heighten your experience during the massage.
Very much depending on the therapist, certain Tantric welcoming, awakening, and/or honoring rituals may be performed. These can be done standing or sitting (on the floor) and can, for instance, include chanting, mantras, hugging and/or lightly caressing your body.
A special ambiance may be created, which, again depending on the therapist, may include darkening the room, burning incense, candlelight, blindfolding, initial touch, and background music.
After the preliminaries you will be invited to lie down nude on a massage table, face down, sometimes starting with a towel on your buttocks. This is when the actual Lingam Massage session starts.
Subsequently, your back, neck, shoulders and arms will be massaged with (warm) oil. Gradually the massage will extend to the lower parts of your body, that is, to the buttocks, thighs, the lower legs and feet.
After being asked to turn around, the therapist will start with the front side of your body. The head, face, neck, arms, belly and hips will be massaged, followed by the erogenous zones, such as the breast, nipples, and inner thighs, while finally heading to the penis, testicles, and perineum. With consent, internal work (rectum and prostate) will be carried out.
Many different kinds of sensations may be experienced during the session, which can include pleasurable feelings, emotional release, crying, shaking, full body orgasms (without physical ejaculation), physical orgasms, and energy whirls throughout the complete body, just to give some examples.
After the session, you will be given some time to relax while lying on the massage table. Usually, the practitioner will use hot towels to take off the oils. You can also take a shower if a bathing facility is available.