Although emotional release is not the primary goal of Thai Massage, it’s not at all uncommon during a session. Receivers may have outbursts of laughter or may start to cry or scream.
That’s nothing to worry about: in fact it’s a healthy cleansing process, a release of (psychological/emotional) tension stored in the receiver’s body.
Not all Thai Massage sessions invoke strong emotional release, yet it is still important to prepare receivers for which may occur because we don’t want them to get into further distress when their bodies start to react causing emotional outbursts.
It’s hard to say in advance who will experience profound emotional release during a session, but in general we could say that people who are already “open to work on themselves” will more easily experience emotional re-balancing. Nevertheless, I have worked with people not at all “open or receptive” who suddenly (to their own surprise and astonishment) experienced strong emotional outbursts.
Nevertheless, emotional release is not always that obvious or intense. Some receivers just need some warmth, comforting—the accepting, caring, non-judgemental touch of another human being. We are all human after all.
As we don’t know how people will respond to the treatment, we should always prepare receivers by explaining them the symptoms/expressions of what perhaps might happen during (or after) a session:
– (uncontrollable) crying or laughing
– (uncontrollable) shaking/trembling
– (uncontrollable) screaming/shouting
– (uncontrollable) coughing
– (uncontrollable) cursing
– (uncontrollable) hitting (even hitting the masseur)
– (uncontrollable) spasms and cramps of muscles/the body
– tickling, ticklish feeling
– lightness in the head/feeling like wanting to faint
– heavy sweating
– feelings of anger
– feeling very cold or very hot
– feeling very tired
– getting very silent/trance
– feeling extremely relaxed
– wanting to vomit
– wanting to stop the massage session
– the skin of the receiver gets very hot and red or the opposite: cold
– bitter taste in the mouth
– memories of trauma’s which come to the surface
One or more of the symptoms mentioned above may show during a session, but they might as well occur in the days following the massage. In general, symptoms can show up to a week after the massage.
Though the body will have found a new equilibrium within 5-7 days normally, exceptions where it takes the receiver 10-14 days to adjust/recover/digest the work may be the case.
Read more about Thai Massage and Emotional Release in Part 2 of the series.