Note: before having a Prostate Massage, check with your physician or healthcare practitioner if there are no medical objections, notably if you suffer from an acute prostate disorder.
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You can carry out Prostate Massage yourself or have it done by a partner, but if it’s a first-time experience it’s perhaps better to have a professional prostate massage therapist doing the treatment. By doing so, you can experience how Prostate Massage should feel, which makes it much easier to do it yourself afterwards.
Of course, Prostate Massage is a very intimate treatment. Therefore, to avoid embarrassing, traumatic, or physically harmful situations, it’s important that it’s carried out in full trust and with mutual consent.
That is, before receiving a massage from a partner or massage practitioner, several things need to be discussed, such as the goal of the session (sensual pleasure, medical treatment, or emotional release); the massage procedure (with the fingers, sex toys, internally or externally, timing); and the emotional and physical limits of the treatment.
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Typically, whatever the goal of the session — sensual/sexual pleasure or not — the practitioner will give you the space for a guilt-free experience of naturally appearing feelings of arousal or even a sexual orgasm, without getting the feeling that it’s something wrong or to be ashamed of.
It’s also advised to agree on a so-called safe-word, which, when said by you during the treatment, will make the practitioner immediately abort the session.
An Internal Prostate Massage (performed via accessing the rectum) should always be done gently, with clean hands, and with plenty of lubricants, and preferably with the use of thin latex gloves (to be obtained at any pharmacy), and with short, clean nails.
Note that a first-time Prostate Massage generally feels somewhat uncomfortable or strange. Nevertheless, vigorous, hard or strong internal pressure and movement is never advised; the anus, rectum, and prostate are delicate organs that can easily be damaged, causing cuts, tears, fissures, bleeding, and abrasions.
Rectal cuts, fissures, and tears are not only uncomfortable; they can also create a higher risk of bacterial infections, cellulitis, or flare-ups of hemorrhoids.
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In addition, applying too much pressure on the prostatic plexus, a network of nerves vital for achieving erections, can damage these nerves, potentially causing or worsening erectile dysfunction (ED).
Men who suffer from acute bacterial prostatitis are advised not to have an Internal Prostate Massage, because this may increase inflammation and the spreading of bacteria to the urethra or other parts of the urinary tract system, and finally to the bloodstream.
Additionally, men who are already diagnosed having prostate cancer, spreading of cancer cells may be stimulated (metastasis). To be clear: if you have prostate cancer, Prostate Massage is not advised.
Mind that performing manual Prostate Massage (notably internal prostate massages) without formal training can do harm to the reproductive system. This also counts for the use of both non-electronic and electronic prostate massagers without training and/or proper instruction.
If you use sex toys i.e., prostate massagers, only use those that are considered absolutely safe, that is, really do research and inform yourself well and check thoroughly on materials used, quality, and safety aspects.
